My feelings are she didn’t need to, just could of confronted you..But maybe she thought she could be validated posting it.Sad to think we feel more seen by people we don’t know.
Self Care, Absolutely time out for you.Your no good for your husband or you if your not well,physically and definitely mentally ,if he is still with mental capacity he will totally understand and agree.You both Love each other❤️
I was in high school in the 70 s…,doesn’t seem that long ago.Though we couldn’t ware mini skirts to school at the time,very popular and boots,mine were knee high and white..Crop tops and bell bottom pants that had huge bell flares on the bottom.
My mother couldn’t swim, but my Dad like to go surf fishing on the sand at the beach,She would tell me that if I went out into the ocean water ,there was a gigantic hole right at the waves and I would fall in..needless to say I was truly afraid until I was about 12.