General Discussion Thread 05.27.2025

James Matthew Najera · May 27, 2025

General Discussion Thread 05.27.2025

Hey GrayViners!

Let’s take a little time-travel stroll today…

If you could write a letter to your younger self—just a few lines, nothing too long—what would you say?

Would you offer a nugget of wisdom? Warn them about a bad haircut decision? Tell them not to sweat the small stuff? Maybe slip in a few stock tips while you're at it?

Think of it like sending a little care package through time—something your younger self could tuck in their pocket for when they need it most.

Drop your message in the comments below. Whether it’s heartfelt, funny, or both, we’d love to hear what you’d say to you.

Ready? Time machines (aka keyboards) at the ready… go!

Cheers!
Blue

merikay · May 27, 2025

You have an exciting future ahead. Be open and go with the flow. You will change from a quiet, shy youngest child of five to a world traveler. You will travel by hitch hiking in 1969 through Africa and later explore other countries all on lite budget using hostels and cooking. Be brave, be smart, save money for travel and go with the flow. Even older you can still stay in hostels and enjoy kids and adults all over the world.

Pattij50 · May 27, 2025

Don’t jump into marriage and make sure you care for your own needs too. You can’t continue to help others if your not taken care of

Hazeleyes · May 27, 2025

Alway remember what your godmother taught you. She seemed to be very wise and knew how to save money. It is not a bad thing to repurpose things that can actually be useful or serve a good purpose. Example of what I mean is she used can covers to make hamburger patties, lined it with parchment paper , putting it in stacks of 4 in freezer bags and freezing them till needed.

CejaeRee · May 27, 2025

I was raised a JW. I hated it. So I would tell her that it’s not her it’s them, to focus harder on her studies and to move out and go live with her grandma as soon as she graduates. Then I’d encourage her to go to university and work on her degree as a photo journalist. Minoring in meteorology.

SueBirch66 · May 27, 2025

Don't let others put you down! You're fine and will do OK in life. Pursue what brings you joy!

kiki · May 27, 2025

I would say to my younger self: Marry Henry and have 3 children hoping they are all girls

Arkie98 · May 27, 2025

Had to learn how to survive at 12 as was kicked out of home. Worked tho and got my schooling. Nursing seemed to be my forte and wish would have gone on to get my degree. But got a good education and became an RTT/Certified Med Aide. Plus looked ahead many years down road and started working in a state facility. Extra income when retired.

lindadominguez · May 27, 2025

Believe in yourself.

Gibb · May 27, 2025

I would tell myself to take control of my weight when I am still young.

TriciaR · Tuesday at 11:18 PM

merikay said:
You have an exciting future ahead. Be open and go with the flow. You will change from a quiet, shy youngest child of five to a world traveler. You will travel by hitch hiking in 1969 through Africa and later explore other countries all on lite budget using hostels and cooking. Be brave, be smart, save money for travel and go with the flow. Even older you can still stay in hostels and enjoy kids and adults all over the world.

Thank you so much for sharing this gem @merikay ! What a remarkable transformation—from a shy youngest child to a fearless world traveler! Your letter is a beautiful reminder that embracing adventure and going with the flow can lead to a life full of rich experiences. We love that you’re still exploring and connecting with people of all ages. Hostel life clearly suits a brave heart like yours!

TriciaR · Tuesday at 11:19 PM

Pattij50 said:
Don’t jump into marriage and make sure you care for your own needs too. You can’t continue to help others if your not taken care of

Thank you for sharing such heartfelt wisdom @Pattij50 . It's a powerful reminder that looking after ourselves isn’t selfish—it’s essential. So often we rush into life’s big decisions, forgetting to check in with our own needs. Your words will definitely resonate with many in our community who have spent a lifetime putting others first.

TriciaR · Tuesday at 11:20 PM

Hazeleyes said:
Alway remember what your godmother taught you. She seemed to be very wise and knew how to save money. It is not a bad thing to repurpose things that can actually be useful or serve a good purpose. Example of what I mean is she used can covers to make hamburger patties, lined it with parchment paper , putting it in stacks of 4 in freezer bags and freezing them till needed.

Thank you for sharing this beautiful memory @Hazeleyes —it’s a touching tribute to your godmother’s quiet wisdom. There’s something so special about those everyday lessons that stick with us for life. Repurposing with purpose, like the can cover trick, is both clever and resourceful! We love hearing these nuggets of old-school ingenuity—they’re just as relevant today as ever.

TriciaR · Tuesday at 11:21 PM

CejaeRee said:
I was raised a JW. I hated it. So I would tell her that it’s not her it’s them, to focus harder on her studies and to move out and go live with her grandma as soon as she graduates. Then I’d encourage her to go to university and work on her degree as a photo journalist. Minoring in meteorology.

Thank you for sharing something so personal @CejaeRee —it takes courage to look back and speak to your younger self with such clarity and honesty. Your message is empowering, especially for anyone who’s ever felt out of place or held back. The advice to follow passion and pursue studies in photojournalism and meteorology is inspiring—what a dynamic combination! Here's to finding your voice and reclaiming your dreams.

TriciaR · Tuesday at 11:26 PM

SueBirch66 said:
Don't let others put you down! You're fine and will do OK in life. Pursue what brings you joy!

Thank you for sharing such a positive and empowering message @SueBirch66 ! It’s a wonderful reminder that self-belief is key, and that joy should always be at the heart of what we do. Your words will surely inspire others to tune out the negativity and follow their own path with confidence. Keep shining bright!

TriciaR · Tuesday at 11:30 PM

kiki said:
I would say to my younger self: Marry Henry and have 3 children hoping they are all girls

Thank you for sharing this sweet glimpse into your hopes and dreams @kiki ! It’s wonderful how certain people and family goals can shape our journeys. Here’s to the joys that come from following your heart and building a life full of love and family.

TriciaR · Tuesday at 11:31 PM

Arkie98 said:
Had to learn how to survive at 12 as was kicked out of home. Worked tho and got my schooling. Nursing seemed to be my forte and wish would have gone on to get my degree. But got a good education and became an RTT/Certified Med Aide. Plus looked ahead many years down road and started working in a state facility. Extra income when retired.

Thank you for sharing such a strong and resilient journey @Arkie98 . Overcoming challenges from such a young age shows incredible courage and determination. It’s inspiring to see how you carved out a meaningful career in nursing and planned wisely for the future with extra income in retirement. Your story is a true testament to perseverance and forward thinking.

TriciaR · Tuesday at 11:32 PM

lindadominguez said:
Believe in yourself.

Thank you for sharing such a timeless and essential reminder @lindadominguez . Believing in yourself is truly the foundation for everything good that follows. Sometimes the simplest advice is the most powerful! Keep that confidence shining bright.

TriciaR · Tuesday at 11:32 PM

Gibb said:
I would tell myself to take control of my weight when I am still young.

Thank you for sharing something so honest and relatable @Gibb . It’s never too early—or too late—to take charge of your health, and your insight is a great reminder for all of us to be kind to ourselves while making positive changes. Here’s to wellness at every age!

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