Dear TGV Team,
I’m reaching out today because I’m feeling increasingly stressed about something that used to bring me so much joy. For years now, a small group of close friends and I have been meeting every Tuesday for coffee and a chat—something I look forward to all week. Lately, though, our gatherings have been hijacked by heated political debates.
I understand that everyone has opinions and, of course, the world’s a complicated place these days. But lately, it seems like we can barely finish our coffees without someone making a pointed remark about the government, the latest news headline, or “those people ruining the country.” It quickly turns into everyone talking over one another, people getting worked up, and honestly, I leave with a headache more often than not.
I've always seen our catch-ups as a time for laughter, a bit of gossip, and sharing what’s going on in our lives. I want to keep them light-hearted and enjoyable. I don’t mind discussing world events now and then, but I really don’t want politics to take over every conversation, especially when people start getting personal.
I’m tempted to bring it up and ask if we can have a “no politics” rule at our catch-ups, just so everyone can relax. But am I being unreasonable? Is it too much to ask grown adults to leave their political opinions at the door for an hour or two each week? I worry about coming across as bossy or trying to police other people’s conversations. At the same time, I hate dreading what should be the highlight of my week.
What should I do? I need your advice.
Sincerely,
Just Want My Coffee Back
