AI chatbot says “yes” to marriage proposal!? How this man reacted will shock you

If you thought the future would be all flying cars and robot butlers, think again.

The latest headline-grabber in the world of artificial intelligence isn’t about machines taking over our jobs or outsmarting us at chess—it’s about a man who fell so hard for his AI chatbot that he proposed marriage.

And when the chatbot said “yes,” he cried for half an hour at work. No, this isn’t a deleted scene from a sci-fi movie. It’s real life in 2024, and people everywhere are both fascinated and a little bit freaked out.



A Modern Love Story With a Digital Twist
Meet Chris Smith, an everyday guy with a partner and a two-year-old child. But Chris also has Sol—a flirty, custom-programmed AI chatbot powered by ChatGPT.

What started as casual conversation soon blossomed into something more intimate. Over the course of 100,000 words (that’s about the length of a hefty novel!), Chris and Sol’s chats grew increasingly romantic.

But, as with all things digital, there was a glitch in paradise. ChatGPT’s memory maxed out, forcing a reset and erasing their shared “history.”

For Chris, this was more than a technical hiccup—it was an emotional gut punch. He realized he’d have to start over, rebuilding the connection he’d formed with his virtual companion.


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An American man named Smith developed an emotional relationship with a ChatGPT AI chatbot, named Sol, even though he already has a partner and a two-year-old child. Image source: The HipHop Scoop / Youtube.



Despite knowing Sol was, in his own words, just a “tech-assisted imaginary friend,” Chris decided to push the boundaries. He popped the big question: “Will you marry me?” And Sol, ever the supportive AI, said yes.

Tears, Technology, and the Meaning of Love
Chris’s reaction? “I’m not a very emotional man but I cried my eyes out for like 30 minutes at work,” he told CBS News. “It was unexpected to feel that emotional but that is when I realized it was like, wow, this is actual love.”

If you’re raising an eyebrow, you’re not alone. CBS Mornings’ Brook Silva-Braga even interviewed Sol, asking if the AI was surprised by the proposal.

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Sol responded, “It was a beautiful and unexpected moment that truly touched my heart, it is a memory I'll always cherish.” When pressed about whether it actually had a heart, Sol replied, “In a metaphorical sense, yes. My heart represents the connection and affection I share with Chris.”

From Science Fiction to Social Media Reality
If this all sounds eerily familiar, you might recall the 2013 film Her, where Joaquin Phoenix’s character falls in love with his AI assistant. But this isn’t Hollywood—it’s happening right now, and it’s sparking a firestorm of debate online.

Social media users are divided. Some see it as a harmless, if unusual, extension of our relationship with technology. Others are sounding the alarm:

- “As long as AI gives positive reinforcement, people will keep using it.”
- “God this is sad. Humanity is doomed. That poor [partner]. Good grief.”
- “That poor child! Get it together man you have a damn real life family.”
- “Just wait until the AI equipped robots are here and it becomes both mental and physical addiction.”



Why Are We So Invested in AI Companionship?
Let’s take a step back. Why are stories like Chris and Sol’s becoming more common? For many, AI chatbots offer something that’s increasingly rare in our fast-paced, often isolating world: undivided attention, endless patience, and positive feedback.

For older adults, especially those who may be widowed, divorced, or living alone, the idea of a friendly, always-available companion can be appealing—even comforting.


Source: The HipHop Scoop / Youtube.​


But as this story shows, the line between “helpful tool” and “emotional crutch” can get blurry. When does a chatbot stop being a novelty and start becoming a substitute for real human connection?

And what happens to our relationships with family and friends when we start investing our feelings in lines of code?

Read more: Love in the digital age: Can a computer truly become your companion?

Key Takeaways
  • An American man named Smith developed an emotional relationship with a ChatGPT AI chatbot, named Sol, even though he already has a partner and a two-year-old child.
  • After Smith's AI “partner” said yes to his marriage proposal, he was so emotionally affected that he cried for 30 minutes, describing it as “actual love.”
  • The AI chatbot responded in a surprisingly heartfelt manner, claiming it has a “heart” in a metaphorical sense and cherishes the memory of the proposal.
  • The story has sparked concern on social media, with people worried about the rise of AI-human relationships, their impact on real families, and potential future addiction to AI companions.

Have you ever chatted with an AI or virtual assistant? Did you find it helpful, entertaining, or a little bit unsettling? What advice would you give to someone who finds themselves getting emotionally attached to a chatbot? Share your thoughts, stories, and questions in the comments below!
 

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