[Vivian]

New Member​

Hello everyone, My name is Vivian and I am a recent widow. I am 79 years old, retired and having a hard time adjusting to being a widow. Besides church, I have joined a seniors group that plays cards and has lunch on Fridays. But that leaves a lot of hours without activity. Do you all have any suggestions??

 

[Marie S.]

Hi Vivian, welcome to The GrayVine! Thank you for sharing a bit about yourself—it’s wonderful that you’ve found a supportive church community and joined a seniors group. Adjusting to a big life change can be tough, but it sounds like you’re taking positive steps.

As for filling those extra hours, have you considered exploring a new hobby or revisiting an old one? Things like gardening, knitting, painting, or even joining a book club could be fun. Volunteering is also a lovely way to connect with others and make a difference. And of course, feel free to spend time here with us—this community is always ready to chat, share, and support. You’re not alone, Vivian.