Paul McCartney shares his favorite bedtime ritual—and the sweet secret to a strong marriage
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We know Paul McCartney as one of the world’s greatest musicians—a Beatle, a hitmaker, a global icon.
But behind the spotlight, it turns out Paul is a lot like the rest of us.
Especially when it comes to slowing down at the end of the day with the person he loves.
Now 82, Paul has opened up about his life at home with his wife, Nancy Shevell, 65, and the everyday routines that keep their nearly 14-year marriage grounded.
From cooking meals to cozy evenings spent side by side, their relationship proves that real love often thrives in the quietest moments.

Paul and Nancy first met in 2007 and were married four years later in 2011.
Nancy, a successful businesswoman, is Paul’s third wife.
His first marriage to Linda Eastman is remembered as one of the great love stories in rock history.
After Linda’s passing in 1998, Paul later married Heather Mills, but that relationship ended in 2008.
Despite decades in the public eye, Paul describes his life with Nancy as refreshingly normal.
In a recent post on his You Gave Me the Answer blog, he shared that they enjoy the simple things together—something many couples can relate to.
"We chat and catch up with each other. We eat lunch or dinner. Well, any meal really, as we love cooking," Paul said.
"Sometimes we will watch something on TV together, and I always read before bed, usually a biography, while Nancy finishes watching a series."
And yes—his favorite thing to do in bed? “I always read before bed,” he added.
Nancy, meanwhile, winds down by watching a show. It’s a routine that feels cozy, familiar, and very relatable.
It’s not just about the shared meals or evening rituals.
Paul also credits the strength of their marriage to a healthy balance of togetherness and independence.
"We’re pretty much like any other normal couple!" he shared.
That balance—enjoying time together while giving each other space—seems to be at the heart of their relationship.
Paul has always had a soft spot for romance.
Whether it’s hiding multiple Valentine’s Day cards around the room or decorating with extra lights at Christmas, he loves going the extra mile.
“There’s not just one card,” he said about his Valentine’s Day tradition.
“There are cards hidden around the room, and sometimes things even spill into the next day—it’s completely silly.”
And when the holidays roll around?
“If there’s an excuse to have some fun, I overdo it! At Christmas, I go crazy with the tree lights and fairy lights—totally overdo it.”
Of course, love isn’t only about fun and games.
Paul also spoke about how important it is to support one another through life’s ups and downs.
“If there’s a problem, I like to be the guy that will lend some strength to it,” he said.
“I’m always very happy to be the person Nancy relies on, and to be her strength when she goes through tough times.”
It’s a reminder that being a partner means showing up in the small moments and the hard ones, too.
Paul and Nancy’s story is a sweet reminder that even the most famous among us find joy in life’s simple pleasures.
It’s not about grand gestures—it’s about being present, being supportive, and finding a little fun in the everyday!
Read next: 50 years of love: Psychologists reveal the secret to lasting happiness
Do you and your partner have your own bedtime routines or little rituals that keep your bond strong? Are you a romantic like Paul, or do you prefer quiet gestures of love? Share your favorite traditions in the comments—we’d love to hear what makes your relationship work!
But behind the spotlight, it turns out Paul is a lot like the rest of us.
Especially when it comes to slowing down at the end of the day with the person he loves.
Now 82, Paul has opened up about his life at home with his wife, Nancy Shevell, 65, and the everyday routines that keep their nearly 14-year marriage grounded.
From cooking meals to cozy evenings spent side by side, their relationship proves that real love often thrives in the quietest moments.

Paul McCartney and wife Nancy Shevell enjoy the simple joys of everyday life, proving that lasting love is built on shared routines and quiet moments. Image Source: YouTube / @thoughts.......
A down-to-earth love story
Paul and Nancy first met in 2007 and were married four years later in 2011.
Nancy, a successful businesswoman, is Paul’s third wife.
His first marriage to Linda Eastman is remembered as one of the great love stories in rock history.
After Linda’s passing in 1998, Paul later married Heather Mills, but that relationship ended in 2008.
Despite decades in the public eye, Paul describes his life with Nancy as refreshingly normal.
In a recent post on his You Gave Me the Answer blog, he shared that they enjoy the simple things together—something many couples can relate to.
"We chat and catch up with each other. We eat lunch or dinner. Well, any meal really, as we love cooking," Paul said.
"Sometimes we will watch something on TV together, and I always read before bed, usually a biography, while Nancy finishes watching a series."
And yes—his favorite thing to do in bed? “I always read before bed,” he added.
Nancy, meanwhile, winds down by watching a show. It’s a routine that feels cozy, familiar, and very relatable.
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The secret to a lasting marriage
It’s not just about the shared meals or evening rituals.
Paul also credits the strength of their marriage to a healthy balance of togetherness and independence.
"We’re pretty much like any other normal couple!" he shared.
That balance—enjoying time together while giving each other space—seems to be at the heart of their relationship.
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A romantic at heart
Paul has always had a soft spot for romance.
Whether it’s hiding multiple Valentine’s Day cards around the room or decorating with extra lights at Christmas, he loves going the extra mile.
“There’s not just one card,” he said about his Valentine’s Day tradition.
“There are cards hidden around the room, and sometimes things even spill into the next day—it’s completely silly.”
And when the holidays roll around?
“If there’s an excuse to have some fun, I overdo it! At Christmas, I go crazy with the tree lights and fairy lights—totally overdo it.”
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Being each other’s rock
Of course, love isn’t only about fun and games.
Paul also spoke about how important it is to support one another through life’s ups and downs.
“If there’s a problem, I like to be the guy that will lend some strength to it,” he said.
“I’m always very happy to be the person Nancy relies on, and to be her strength when she goes through tough times.”
It’s a reminder that being a partner means showing up in the small moments and the hard ones, too.
Paul and Nancy’s story is a sweet reminder that even the most famous among us find joy in life’s simple pleasures.
It’s not about grand gestures—it’s about being present, being supportive, and finding a little fun in the everyday!
Read next: 50 years of love: Psychologists reveal the secret to lasting happiness
Key Takeaways
- Paul McCartney has given fans a rare insight into his nearly 14-year marriage with wife Nancy Shevell, sharing details about their relaxed home life.
- The Beatles star said he and Nancy enjoy cooking, eating meals together, chatting, and giving each other space to unwind, with Paul reading before bed and Nancy finishing TV shows.
- McCartney described himself as a hopeless romantic, going all out for occasions like Valentine’s Day and Christmas with heartfelt gestures and decorations.
- He values being a supportive partner, aiming to be a source of strength for Nancy during tough times and taking pride in their partnership.
Do you and your partner have your own bedtime routines or little rituals that keep your bond strong? Are you a romantic like Paul, or do you prefer quiet gestures of love? Share your favorite traditions in the comments—we’d love to hear what makes your relationship work!