Have you ever dreamed of packing your bags, grabbing your passport, and spending your golden years exploring the world?

For many, it’s a fantasy. For this man and his wife, it’s been their reality since 2019.

They traded the familiar comforts of home for a life on the move, living in nearly 50 countries (and counting!)—from the bustling streets of Southeast Asia to the sun-drenched coasts of the Mediterranean.



Along the way, they’ve learned what makes a place truly special for retirees: affordability, culture, healthcare, food, and that elusive feeling of “home.”

While every country has its charms, a few have captured their hearts—and one stands out as their clear favorite.

If you’re considering retiring abroad, or just want to live vicariously through their adventures, read on for our top picks and insider tips!



1. Vietnam: Affordable Living, Vibrant Culture, and Food to Write Home About
Norm Bour and his wife’s Southeast Asian adventures spanned 17 months, but Vietnam kept calling them back.

The second time around, they stayed the full 90 days allowed on their visa, soaking up every bit of local flavor in Da Nang—a city that’s become a magnet for expats.

Why they loved it:

• Cost of Living: Vietnam is a retiree’s dream when it comes to stretching your dollar. They enjoyed delicious banh mi sandwiches for less than a buck, steaming bowls of pho for breakfast, and fresh seafood at prices that made them do a double-take.
• Culture & Convenience: Da Nang is the perfect blend of East and West. You’ll find Western-style grocery stores alongside bustling local markets, and the ancient city of Hoi An (a UNESCO World Heritage site) is just a short scooter ride away.
• Natural Beauty: From rivers and beaches to lush mountains, there’s no shortage of stunning scenery. Renting a scooter for $45 a month made exploring easy and fun.
• Retiree tip: Vietnam’s expat community is welcoming, and English is increasingly common in cities. Healthcare is affordable, but quality can vary—do your research before you go.

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2. Italy: History, Charm, and La Dolce Vita

Italy is on just about everyone’s bucket list, and for good reason. The couple has lived there twice, and each time felt like stepping into a living museum.

Why they loved it:

• History Everywhere: Their first stay was in Tivoli, a medieval town east of Rome, where they lived in a 500-year-old apartment. Later, they spent six weeks in Sicily, marveling at ancient ruins like the Temple of Apollo.
• Food & Wine: Italy’s culinary reputation is well-deserved. Norm and his wife feasted on fresh fish from local markets and sipped $2 bottles of wine that would cost ten times as much back in the US.

• Lifestyle: Italians know how to enjoy life. Whether it’s a leisurely stroll through a piazza or a long lunch with friends, the pace is perfect for retirees.
• Retiree tip: Italy’s healthcare system is excellent, especially for residents. Learning a bit of Italian goes a long way, especially in smaller towns.

3. Malaysia: World-Class Healthcare and Natural Wonders
Malaysia might not be the first place you think of for retirement, but it’s become their go-to for affordable, high-quality medical care.

Why they loved it:

• Healthcare: Malaysia is a medical tourism hotspot. They’ve had full-body exams, blood tests, and scans for a fraction of US prices—no insurance headaches, no red tape.
• Affordability: The cost of living is low, and you can enjoy everything from modern city life in Kuala Lumpur to tranquil beaches and rainforests.
• Diversity: Malaysia is a melting pot of cultures, with incredible food and friendly locals.
• Retiree tip: English is widely spoken, and expat communities are thriving. Malaysia’s “Malaysia My Second Home” (MM2H) program offers long-term visas for retirees.

4. Croatia: The Hidden Gem We Can’t Stop Returning To
Of all the places we’ve lived, Croatia is the one they keep coming back to—and the one they'd choose again in a heartbeat.

Why they loved it:

• Stunning Scenery: From the sparkling Adriatic Sea to medieval towns and lush islands, Croatia is breathtaking. Norm and his wife lived in affordable waterfront lodging near Split, with daily walks along the promenade and endless views of ships and sandy beaches.
• History & Charm: Split’s Diocletian Palace is a living piece of history, with homes and shops built right into ancient walls. The Istrian Peninsula and dozens of islands offer endless opportunities for exploration.

• Easy Living: English is widely spoken, making it easy to connect with locals. The seafood is fresh, the wine is excellent, and the pace of life is just right.
• Retiree tip: Croatia is part of the EU, making travel easy. Healthcare is good and affordable, especially for residents. The country is still under the radar for many Americans, so you’ll enjoy a more authentic experience.

Thinking of Retiring Abroad? Here’s What We’ve Learned

• Try Before You Commit: Spend at least a month in a new place before making any big decisions.
• Stay Flexible: Visa rules, healthcare, and costs can change—be ready to adapt.
• Connect with Other Expats: They’re a goldmine of information and support.
• Embrace the Adventure: Every country has its quirks. The key is to enjoy the ride!

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Have you ever considered retiring abroad? Do you have a favorite country you’d love to call home—or questions about life as a nomad? Share your thoughts, dreams, and travel stories in the comments below!