Dear TGV,
I’ve always believed in neighborly kindness. Over the years, our block has seen plenty of potlucks, shared tools, and friendly waves. Recently, though, my new neighbors have taken a shine to my backyard especially my old porch swing and flower garden.
At first, I didn’t mind them stopping by for a quick hello or a chat over the fence. But lately, they’ve started inviting themselves over more often, sometimes settling in for the afternoon without much notice. Last week, I came home from errands to find them having coffee on my swing!
They’re lovely people, and I truly don’t want to hurt their feelings or seem unfriendly. But I miss having my quiet mornings, and sometimes just want my own space.
Has anyone else dealt with neighbors who blur the line between “friendly” and “a little too comfortable”? How did you handle it without making things awkward? Any advice for finding that gentle balance?
Appreciate any wisdom,
Friendly Fences
