Front Porch Forum: "Should I adopt a senior pet even if my daughter thinks I won’t be able to keep up?" (08/16/2025)
Pull up a seat, GrayViners! “A Dog Could Change Everything” wonders if opening her heart and home to a senior pup is a joyful choice or a risky leap. Is this love worth the responsibility—or is it a gamble too great? Read on and share your thoughts.
Hello TGV,
I’ve always had a dog. Until five years ago, when my sweet Rosie passed and I promised I’d wait a while. That while has turned into too long. Lately, the house feels too quiet. The walks feel lonelier. And my heart feels restless.
I saw a senior dog at the shelter last week. Ten years old. Mellow. With the kindest eyes. I felt something open up again. But when I told my daughter, she said I was being reckless. That it was too much responsibility at my age. She listed all the things that could go wrong. And I started to wonder if maybe she’s right.
But am I not allowed to choose joy? Even if it’s messy? Even if it comes with vet bills and early mornings and little paw prints on the rug? I don’t want to be reckless. I want to be real. I want companionship. Purpose. Love.
Maybe I won’t live another ten years. But maybe I will. And maybe I’d like to spend those years waking up to someone who wags their tail when I open my eyes.
Is that foolish or is it exactly what I need?
Still setting out the water bowl, just in case,
A Dog Could Change Everything
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