Thank you for sharing this heartfelt and deeply compassionate memory @Trix . What your dad said shows such wisdom and kindness—it's never easy to say goodbye to a beloved pet, but thinking about their comfort and dignity is such an important part of loving them well. It's beautiful that you’ve carried that lesson forward and now share it with others. Have you had a moment when passing on your dad’s words really helped a friend through a tough time with their pet? We’d love to hear how that legacy of care has made a difference.
 
Be kind. Be generous. The more you put out into the universe the more you will be given in return.
Thank you for sharing such a lovely and uplifting life lesson @Jpack1224 . It’s simple, yet so powerful—kindness and generosity really do have a ripple effect, don’t they? Have you had a moment where that energy came back to you in an unexpected or meaningful way? We'd love to hear how this belief has played out in your life—it sounds like there’s a beautiful story behind it!
 
If one makes a promise and cannot fulfill it. Just say to the person I can't do as I told you.
Thank you for sharing this honest and wise reminder @Doris Gallaher . It’s such a simple act—just being upfront when we can’t follow through—but it really does go a long way in keeping trust and respect in our relationships. Was there a moment in your life that taught you this lesson? Maybe someone showed you grace when you had to break a promise—or didn’t? We’d love to hear what shaped this insight for you.
 
You can worry or you can pray, but you can't do both.
Thank you for sharing this powerful piece of wisdom @kligman . It really speaks to the importance of letting go and trusting—whether that’s through faith, mindfulness, or simply surrendering what we can’t control.
Has this mindset helped you through a particularly difficult time? We’d love to hear how this approach has made a difference in your life, or how you remind yourself to shift from worry to trust when things get tough.
 
Take care of your business and don’t expect someone to always bail you out
Thank you for sharing this strong and empowering lesson @Pattij50 . It’s a great reminder about personal responsibility and standing on our own two feet—something that builds resilience over time. Was there a moment in your life when this lesson really clicked for you? Maybe an experience where you had to dig deep and handle something on your own? We’d love to hear the story behind this insight if you’re open to sharing.
 
Never give in to the urge to hold a grudge.
Thank you for sharing this beautiful reminder @stoney428 . Letting go of grudges can be one of the most freeing things we do—for our own peace of mind more than anything. Has there been a moment when choosing forgiveness over holding a grudge changed the outcome of a situation or a relationship in your life? We’d love to hear what led you to this insight.
 
Life is best when you know Jesus as your Lord and Savior. Read John 3:16 and John 14:6
Thank you so much for sharing this @Wellman —it’s clear your faith plays a meaningful role in your life. Those verses are powerful reminders of love, grace, and the promise of a deeper connection through belief. Has there been a moment in your life when your faith gave you strength or clarity during a challenging time? We’d love to hear how your relationship with Jesus has shaped your journey.
 
You don't know what other people have been through. Don't judge. Be kind no matter who it is. If you can't be kind then walk away.
Thank you for sharing this compassionate and wise lesson @Wheream1? . It’s such an important reminder—everyone is carrying something, even if we can’t see it. Has there been a time when you showed kindness to someone and later discovered just how much they needed it? Or maybe a moment when someone surprised you with their story? We’d love to hear how this perspective has shaped your interactions with others.
 
Christ has risen!!!
Thank you for sharing this joyful and faith-filled declaration @CGV ! Christ has risen!—such a powerful reminder of hope, renewal, and the promise of new beginnings. Has Easter or your faith journey brought you any memorable moments of transformation or reassurance? We’d love to hear how this truth has touched your life in a personal way.
 
If you are not part of the solution then you are part of the problem.
Thank you for sharing this bold and thought-provoking life lesson @Arkie98 . It really challenges us to reflect on our actions—or inactions—and take responsibility for creating positive change. Was there a time when this mindset pushed you to step up and get involved, even when it wasn’t easy? We’d love to hear how this principle has played out in your life.
 
Thank you for sharing such a powerful one-word lesson @Alice Rose . Patience may seem simple, but it often takes a lifetime to truly understand and practice it. Has there been a particular experience that taught you the value of patience—perhaps with yourself, others, or a situation you couldn’t control? We’d love to hear how this lesson became meaningful to you.
 
You cannot help those who won't help themselves.
Thank you for sharing this honest and important insight @lckillian . It’s tough to accept sometimes, especially when we care deeply about someone—but it’s true that real change has to come from within. Was there a time when you had to step back and let someone take responsibility for their own choices? We’d love to hear how this lesson came to life for you, if you’re comfortable sharing.
 
Be kind. Be generous. Respect others, all others, especially those who respect you. Don’t gossip. Tell the truth and live your truth. Don’t stay silent when you see something do something. Be patient. I'm sure I have forgotten something. Pray.
Thank you for sharing this heartfelt and deeply grounded list of values @Gayle B. —it’s like a personal code to live by, and such a meaningful one at that. There's so much wisdom packed into each line, from kindness and honesty to the courage to speak up and the strength found in prayer. Was there a particular moment or experience that brought these values into focus for you? Maybe a person in your life who inspired this way of living? We’d love to hear more about the story behind your words.
 
My advice is never hesitate to give a stranger a compliment, you will brighten their day. You never know what people are going through.
Thank you for sharing such a lovely and uplifting piece of advice @Gibb . A simple compliment can truly turn someone’s whole day around—and it costs nothing to give! Has there been a time when you gave a stranger a compliment and saw their face light up? Or maybe someone did that for you at just the right moment? We’d love to hear how this kind of everyday kindness has touched your life.
 
Take time and enjoy each season of life. Enjoy your kids and trust your intuition. If it feels wrong trust that.
Thank you for sharing this warm and thoughtful life lesson @mmull . There’s so much wisdom in slowing down to appreciate each season—and in learning to trust our inner voice, especially as parents or carers. Was there a moment when listening to your intuition helped you make a decision you’re glad you made? Or a particular season of life that you look back on with special fondness? We’d love to hear more about what shaped this beautiful insight.
 

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